Coping With Cancer
A Family Show
An often overlooked feature of treating cancer is what I am saying that “after the event.” S when your loved one passed. The coming months are a particularly difficult NEWS for such people.
There is a real danger that has received during this time the grieving person resorts to addictive substances by the trauma. This is understandable, but not always the best approach. You can find me Drinks NEWS much (too much alcohol is much more than the recommended amount per week) during the months following the death.
My experience is that you can then gradually come to a reasonable level. I am not sure to drink as a means of adaptation. But I am realistic NEWS that some people in this root, which is aware of this behavior. I [even going that way after my father died in February 2005].
His anger and tears, even in the same time, are very common feelings after the event. Be embarrassed by it. It is perfectly normal. Try to hurt just to yourself and others! I found that walking in nature useful, especially uphill and downhill. The physical NEWS. The effort to feel better and that some of repressed emotion.
Family and friends should watch closely to each other if possible. After such a trauma, it is often the case that people shut themselves away and shun any social contact NEWS. Take the phone and call another. Constantly in contact with someone who has lost a husband, wife or partner who is very, very important.
They should be used with a specific person, often for decades, then you try to shock, if the person is removed to imagine, especially if it suddenly. Try to arrange NEWS an event (theater, cinema, etc.), so they still feel part of the “family” and they will again sociability.
It is naturally more alert immediately after the event, but do not slip into long periods of time between the contact in the future.
They say: “Time Heals”. I say that ‘time makes it less bad. ”
At the end of the day, death is part of life. We just learn to deal with them.
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